Letter To Bully Victims

Dear bully victims, just like you, I've been bullied. Bullying is a common thing in many schools, jobs, ect. I might not be that well of a person who speaks against things, but I will say this. Bullies are low, they don't care about our feelings and they wish to make our life a living hell. The best thing that we can do is keep our eyes on the path ahead of us, our life. Here is some of the bullying that we all can go through:

Cyber bullying: Well, for this one, it is common. Most bullies I've encountered on here, and all I can say is, why?! DA is supposed to be a place where people won't lose their heads thanks to obnoxious comments. I've had my fair share of them actually, people messaged me before on other sites that you might have been on as well. Twitter for example, listen, if a bully is bullying you online, all you have to do is block them, report them, ect. Don't listen to them, just ignore them in those ways.

Physical/Mental bullying: Many of my friends, and you, have gone through this. When bullying is mentally, it is rough. A few times I was at the point of suicide because of mental bullying, because I had multiple breakdowns. Best way to solve this is to just listen to calming music, I know it's hard, but remember, you are the one who can stand up for yourself, don't be physical, be peaceful about it, and try to make it through your day. Physical bullying is horrible, I've also been through this, I was beat up 2 times by 5 guys, and I bet you've been through worse in some ways. If you fight back against them, you could get in trouble too, try to find help as soon as you can if it gets physical. Find a teacher, or anybody, they will help hopefully. 

There is many other types of bullying, but these are the common ones, bullying can lead to these things:

-Anger issues

-Fast heart rate

-Snapping

-Injuries (from bully)

-Self harm 

If you have developed any of these things, I will admit, I've developed anger issues and multiple body injuries from bullying. Even so, I kept moving on. Keep your head held high, be who you want to be, succeed. No matter what, you are important, don't let them crash you to the floor. None of us will be exactly the same, so be yourself, be an individual, because a person is a person, no matter how different. Thank you all for reading, I hope this cheered you all up some, because it did me. Just keep your eyes on the goal to your future, and ignore the jerks, they are only obstacles in your path, just make it through them.

-Victoria Holland, 2014